Two things happened recently made me think a lot about what we are taught or brainwashed by the conception of humanity.

 

It is highly possible that it is only a way society used to culturalize every new born person so that there are limitations of individual's behavior. Under the artificial circumstance that human society made for the expanding diversity of human population, it is doubtful that these conceptions are useful and there will not be collapse of the present framework of the  humanity. As presented by a scientist in a lecture this week, the information of human behavior is not coded genetically buy cultrually, which means it should take the new born population time to learn what is concluded by the past generation. Will there be severe confliction between the two?

 

Another thing is about the respect of life. Our newspapers and Television are more filled with the appreciation, propagandization of the brave deeds of devoting the life for saving others than respecting of the life itself. I think this preference would be misleading that people will underestimate the great power when man try to save his own life. Evrything would be possible when people's life are on the edge of death.

 

That is the animal's face of humanbeing----- when the life is threatened, we will natually behavior not diffrence from an animal.

我特别喜欢睡比较软的枕头，但是最近的枕头是在是太软的， 我睡觉的时候把脖子弄疼了， 难受的不行，由此想到脖子实际上是人很重要的一个部分。

 

脖子有什么功能呢？

1.增加视角，通过转动脖子

2.通过改变头的角度，来表示一定的表情

3. nod 和shake, 如果你是哑巴，就知道有多么重要的了

4.女孩子项链

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欢迎补充， 并且有什么好的建议，能对付我的脖子的，我在这里先谢谢了

几个韩国留学生和中国学生在附近开了一家批萨店， 这几天试营业，bbs上找人帮他们送批萨。我正好有时间，而且也想赚点钱用用，所以就联系他们了。

 

做批萨的厨师是一个中国人，学生模样，江苏老乡，据说是学了三年的厨艺了。几个韩国学生和他们一起忙得不亦乐乎。 刚开始创业还真的不简单，他们什么都不会，做批萨已经学了好久了。不过现在的成果还真的不错，至少批萨是挺好吃的。

 

晚上送了一个批萨，还帮他们打印了一些宣传的单子什么的，然后就是很他们聊天，玩到十点， 走的时候给了我们一人50块钱。 其实什么都没有干， 还真的不太好意思...

 

希望他们生意能做好，做大......,他们的批萨真的挺好吃的

Rubin writes that in a best friendship there is "a promise of mutual love, concern,protection,understanding and not least of all, stability and durability." Best friendships embody the best of all the important relationships in our lives---kin, mateand friend---along with the problems of all three. They bring us our greatest joys and our sorriest disappointments. "Do you have a best friend?" This question that Rubin asked three hundred men and women( aged twenty-five to fifty-five, working class and middle class) whom she interviewed for her research on friendship. Over three-fourths of the single women named a best friend, and this person was almot always a woman. In sharp contrast, fewer than one-third of the single men could identify a best friend, and those who were identified were much more likely to be a woman than another man. Rubin's results showed that, at every age between twenty-five and fifty-five, woman had more friendships than men did, and the differences in quality ere considerable. Women's friendships with each other rested on shared intimacies and emotional support. In contrast, friendshipd between men wew based on shared activities and were much more emotionally constrained.

 

As we begin to separate ourselves and grow away from our families in adolescence, friendships become even more important to us as sources of support. However, in late adolescence and early adulthood, friendships can take a back seat to romantic relationships. Marriage can disrupt the friendships we formed as  couples.

 

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